One, two, three, four..... Ops, I am losing it. Count again. One, two, three,......, eleven, twelve,....., hundred twenty,....., thousand. Ops, I lost it again! Whatever! Generalize. It seems everyone is like that, wants to be identically that. Everyone wants to be....."mysterious." Sh, that's a secret. Yeah, it's common and seems like human nature, but play along and act as if it's a "secret." It's part of being mysterious too, don't you think?
Oh, you thought I tried to be funny at the counting part? I am ridiculous, but not to that extent, I think. I did really count how many people want to, love to act mysteriously. I think as much their intention to be mysterious is intense as it's obvious to be falsely and naively -add foolishly- mysterious.
People who want to be mysterious are...... (Lonely, undignified, hurt, lost). Their aim is to be...... (unpredictable, respected, feared of, cool). Come on. Choose. Answer!
You don't want to answer, right? You're afraid someone would take your answer as being "pathetic." You just act "cool" and say that type of people is "weird" with that curled lips, turn your face away which means you're not mysterious either, at all.
We all had times when we were lonely. Even if you were never left alone, you dragged yourself away from the crowd for a while. The noise of how many people around you, forces you to lock yourself up in a calm room where the only voice you can hear is yours. That's when you learnt the necessity to teach people around you that even if you seem alone, you're still cool. So, you went ahead as the mysterious Holmes.
We all suffered from being undignified. Friends, parents, teachers, whoever in your life had played a part to suffer from scratched dignity. That's when you learnt the necessity to be unpredictable, so people wouldn't go at you with their should and shouldn't, break your plans to pieces, make your wittiness unclean rag. So, you went ahead as the mysterious Holmes.
We ALL have been hurt. Yeah, I stressed at "all" this time, cause I am sure of it. Some are hurt for serious dramatic reasons, others are hurt for silly ones, it differs from one person to another -according to the applied conditions-. Well, I've just noticed that it doesn't differ from "undignified" much. It's just being your dignity hurt is intentionally mean & somehow expected, but being generally "hurt" means shocked & unbelievable as it's from someone whom you thought of as the center of your universe. That's when you learnt the necessity to be feared of. To be the boss whose frown may make everyone wish to die. So, you went ahead as the mysterious Holmes.
We all felt lost. This time I say, EVERY NOW AND THEN, we feel so. People feel, it is a chance to do a good deed and they run to you offering all......shallow advice. That's when you learnt the necessity to be respected that however you seem lost, your decisions and your smartness must be taken seriously and given unlimited time to show up. So, you went ahead as the mysterious Holmes.
My friends tried to be mysterious. They had it as an aim. That's how I reached this deduction, may be I am wrong, but if they were really mysterious with no fake-acting thing going on, I'd have never had a chance to feel a thing.
Stop! Question: how can I judge someone as being mysterious? I actually found out that they would make me lost. It's not by being moody, but by their flexibility, variation, stability and criticism. You think mysterious people are silent, I see them talkative and interactive, cause they have a lot to say and they are very picky to find the right time, the right place and the right people to let it shine. And because, all those factors take so long time to be found, the ideas and the outstanding concepts grow in their brains till it develop as an automatic answer, that's why -I guess- mysterious people always say what impresses you in a calm tune and within no time.
I am not a psychiatrist to set theories. I am not 100 year-old to be knowledgeable about different types of people. I am not a person with million novels in her library. I am sure the majority of what I said would be wrong, but I can't skip the fact that it can be true to a minority.
People who want to be mysterious are...... (Lonely, undignified, hurt, lost). Their aim is to be...... (unpredictable, respected, feared of, cool). Come on. Choose. Answer!
You don't want to answer, right? You're afraid someone would take your answer as being "pathetic." You just act "cool" and say that type of people is "weird" with that curled lips, turn your face away which means you're not mysterious either, at all.
We all had times when we were lonely. Even if you were never left alone, you dragged yourself away from the crowd for a while. The noise of how many people around you, forces you to lock yourself up in a calm room where the only voice you can hear is yours. That's when you learnt the necessity to teach people around you that even if you seem alone, you're still cool. So, you went ahead as the mysterious Holmes.
We all suffered from being undignified. Friends, parents, teachers, whoever in your life had played a part to suffer from scratched dignity. That's when you learnt the necessity to be unpredictable, so people wouldn't go at you with their should and shouldn't, break your plans to pieces, make your wittiness unclean rag. So, you went ahead as the mysterious Holmes.
We ALL have been hurt. Yeah, I stressed at "all" this time, cause I am sure of it. Some are hurt for serious dramatic reasons, others are hurt for silly ones, it differs from one person to another -according to the applied conditions-. Well, I've just noticed that it doesn't differ from "undignified" much. It's just being your dignity hurt is intentionally mean & somehow expected, but being generally "hurt" means shocked & unbelievable as it's from someone whom you thought of as the center of your universe. That's when you learnt the necessity to be feared of. To be the boss whose frown may make everyone wish to die. So, you went ahead as the mysterious Holmes.
We all felt lost. This time I say, EVERY NOW AND THEN, we feel so. People feel, it is a chance to do a good deed and they run to you offering all......shallow advice. That's when you learnt the necessity to be respected that however you seem lost, your decisions and your smartness must be taken seriously and given unlimited time to show up. So, you went ahead as the mysterious Holmes.
My friends tried to be mysterious. They had it as an aim. That's how I reached this deduction, may be I am wrong, but if they were really mysterious with no fake-acting thing going on, I'd have never had a chance to feel a thing.
Stop! Question: how can I judge someone as being mysterious? I actually found out that they would make me lost. It's not by being moody, but by their flexibility, variation, stability and criticism. You think mysterious people are silent, I see them talkative and interactive, cause they have a lot to say and they are very picky to find the right time, the right place and the right people to let it shine. And because, all those factors take so long time to be found, the ideas and the outstanding concepts grow in their brains till it develop as an automatic answer, that's why -I guess- mysterious people always say what impresses you in a calm tune and within no time.
I am not a psychiatrist to set theories. I am not 100 year-old to be knowledgeable about different types of people. I am not a person with million novels in her library. I am sure the majority of what I said would be wrong, but I can't skip the fact that it can be true to a minority.
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