I came up with this statement trying to describe somebody. She is a girl who may wear girlish clothes, so no problem with that, but actually most of the time she is in her sneakers and sweatshirt. She talks to guys like she is one of them, she never had a thought that someone would mistaken her as a flirty girl. She likes wrestling, soccer, metal music,... anything which this society relates to man's world. She hates romance and feels bored when soft music is on. They say she is kinda a guy while she will end up marrying a man; so, I thought "she is a gay guy" statement would fit her.
Actually, I am not judging her. I like her as she is! The thing that when a good friend of yours comes to you and tells you what is said about you behind your back which is the complete opposite of you, when your parent is warning you from this world that it is not judging you according your actions, your words nor your intentions; it is according how the world WANTS TO SEE YOU. That's what had been said to her. So, she found out that "Out of sight, out of mind" motto may work well, but, apparently, she couldn't cause THE SAME PEOPLE WHO ADVISED HER, said: "You have to keep updated with this world outside. Meet people, know information, listen to new thoughts. Being isolated is like a plant was put away from the sun, the result would be death. Isolation is an actual suicidal."
So, what will she do? She is religious. She knows her limits in treating others whether boys or girls. Isolation is forbidden, mingling with respect and borders is banned. Solution?!
Finally, she could convince herself with the truth which is "People never stop talking about others." They judge "others" when they have low self-esteem. They admire "others" when those "others" give them attention. In the end, to have peaceful life aim for the following:
1)Seek God's satisfaction.
2)Avoid hurting others.
3)Respect others' opinions even if they sound weird.
4)Correct who is wrong without making it obvious that you are the right one.
5)Be yourself.
6)It is an obligation to face haters in your life, so never change yourself for them, cause they are envious of how amazing you are.
Actually, I am not judging her. I like her as she is! The thing that when a good friend of yours comes to you and tells you what is said about you behind your back which is the complete opposite of you, when your parent is warning you from this world that it is not judging you according your actions, your words nor your intentions; it is according how the world WANTS TO SEE YOU. That's what had been said to her. So, she found out that "Out of sight, out of mind" motto may work well, but, apparently, she couldn't cause THE SAME PEOPLE WHO ADVISED HER, said: "You have to keep updated with this world outside. Meet people, know information, listen to new thoughts. Being isolated is like a plant was put away from the sun, the result would be death. Isolation is an actual suicidal."
So, what will she do? She is religious. She knows her limits in treating others whether boys or girls. Isolation is forbidden, mingling with respect and borders is banned. Solution?!
Finally, she could convince herself with the truth which is "People never stop talking about others." They judge "others" when they have low self-esteem. They admire "others" when those "others" give them attention. In the end, to have peaceful life aim for the following:
1)Seek God's satisfaction.
2)Avoid hurting others.
3)Respect others' opinions even if they sound weird.
4)Correct who is wrong without making it obvious that you are the right one.
5)Be yourself.
6)It is an obligation to face haters in your life, so never change yourself for them, cause they are envious of how amazing you are.
Awesooooooome ;)
ReplyDeleteThank you so much. :D
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